North Ridge Elementary 24-25

How can we foster respect and empathy among our students?

When we ask ourselves this question, we recognize that there are foundational skills that underpin the ability to develop healthy relationships.  These building blocks include the ability to recognize emotions, identify caring behaviours in others, take perspective, as well as describe and apply the strategies for developing and maintaining positive connections.  This is no small feat!

Our teachers work expertly with the students to bring age-appropriate activities that cultivate these skills.  Class meetings are one of the common and important tools in a SEL toolkit.  

Morning Meetings

Morning meetings are important in the classroom because they foster a positive learning environment by building community, strengthening social-emotional skills, and preparing students for the day's learning. They create a sense of belonging, boost students' confidence, and improve communication skills. 

In one of our early primary classes, the teacher begins each day with a structured morning meeting that fosters community, communication, and social-emotional learning (SEL).  They have a special focus for their meetings each day!

• Monday: Weekend News – Students share highlights from their weekend.
• Tuesday: Special Question Tuesday – A thought-provoking or fun question encourages deeper conversation. For example, “What is 30 – 5?” or “Which of these animals do not have fur? Bear, dog, or flamingo?”
• Wednesday: Boogie Wednesday – A short dance break to energize and promote joy.
• Thursday: Air Greeting Thursday – Students greet each other in creative, contact-free ways. For example, an air hug, an air high five, or thumbs up 
• Friday: How Do We Feel Friday – A check-in on emotions and well-being.

Check out this clip from a Monday Morning Meeting!

In this class, morning meetings aim to:

• Develop oral communication skills and confidence in speaking
• Encourage consistent eye contact and active listening
• Promote inclusivity and respect for all individuals in the classroom, including support staff, substitutes, and peers with exceptionalities
• Foster a welcoming and respectful classroom culture

These routines are intentionally aligned with SEL competencies, including:

• Self-awareness – Understanding one’s emotions, strengths, and areas for growth
• Social awareness – Demonstrating empathy and respect for others
• Relationship skills – Building and maintaining positive relationships with peers and adults

Rose, Bud and Thorn

In one of our intermediate classes, the teacher leads her class through an activity called Rose, Bud, Thorn.  The intended learning for Rose, Bud, Thorn, is to provide students with a safe space to speak and to be listened to. The teacher says, "I wanted to build a strong classroom community and a chance for them to check in with me, and to practice speaking in front of their peers. I followed through on the rules of respectful listening such as eye contact, and body language, and modeled how to appropriately speak about their grievances (if they had any thorns about hard situations at school). Generally, I find that students love ending their week like this and are disappointed if we miss it."

"Don't Look Behind You"  and  "Silly Goose"

Classroom drama games give students the opportunity to express and explore feelings in a safe, supported setting.   Students learn how to express themselves, identify feelings, and sometimes even resist an expected feeling.  

In the first game, "Don't Look Behind You", two kids stand in front of the group and one starts with the prompt "Don't look behind you but....." They fill in the blanks with something they imagine and the rest of the class acts out whatever they just said!  Students take turns being the prompter and the one that, inevitably, looks back to see the suggested surprise.

The game "Don't Look Behind You" offers several benefits, primarily focusing on building creativity, collaboration, and risk-taking, particularly in a classroom setting.   The game supports our curricular competencies by developing the underpinning skills.  The game:

• Encourages Imagination:Players must quickly come up with dramatic and silly scenarios, fostering creative thinking.
• Promotes Collaboration:The game requires players to work together to act out the scenarios, encouraging teamwork.
• Develops Risk-Taking:Players are encouraged to be bold and take chances in their choices, which can translate to other areas of learning.

Silly Goose

In the game, Silly Goose, a pair of students work together.  One does their best engage in non-verbal expressions that could evoke laughter while the other student does their best to regulate their response and not laugh.  This drama game offers a range of benefits for participants, including enhanced social skills, improved communication, and increased creativity. The game also fosters the skills that underpin a student's ability to grow as a respectful, empathetic community member.   

Specific benefits include:

• Social Skills: The game encourages interaction, sharing, and turn-taking, which are crucial for developing social competence.
• Communication: Children learn to express themselves clearly and listen attentively to others, both verbally and nonverbally. 

  Confidence:  Participating in dramatic play can help children overcome shyness and build self-assurance in expressing themselves.
• Creativity: "Silly Goose" games stimulate imagination and allow children to explore different roles and scenarios.
• Teamwork: Group activities promote collaboration and the ability to work together towards a common goal.
  
  

Emotional Awareness and Expressing Empathy

In our of our upper intermediate classes this year, we focused on emotional awareness and empathy by using the feelings wheel as a central tool. We began with a simplified version to help students identify basic emotions and slowly introduced a more detailed chart as they became more comfortable. Together, we explored what these emotions might look like in others, especially when someone isn't directly expressing how they feel. For example, we discussed how sadness might look like someone sitting alone with their head down, red or teary eyes, or low energy.

In drama, students then created skits to act out different emotions and explored how they can support others who might be feeling that way. 

In Language Arts, they practiced “showing, not telling” emotions in their writing and describing scenes in which feelings were revealed through body language, actions, or tone of voice.

The results were incredible and not only produced excellent, detailed writing, but also demonstrate the students' developing ability to understand emotions in-depth, take perspective and describe cues that help us navigate an emotional landscape.

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How do we know that we are finding success in fostering respect and empathy among our students?  How do we know that our students are continually growing in their ability to describe and develop strategies for positive, healthy relationships?  How are they showing progress in demonstrating respectful, inclusive behaviour?

Our Student Learning Plan is new, however, the evidence is gathering that our students are growing, learning, and becoming community members who demonstrate respect and empathy for others.

In our primary class the teacher is seeing the difference that Morning Meetings and SEL Drama games are having on her class.  She shared, “I am extremely proud of our class because I see the growth in care and empathy towards everyone. I also see the confidence that has been built, especially the students who are ELL and were often nervous to speak at the beginning of the year. I have had some of the students’ past teachers come to me and say they are pleasantly surprised with how much their old students talk with such confidence!"

The "Rose, Bud and Thorn" activity is helping our students practice their ability to share, listen and demonstrate respect for their peers.  The teacher reflected, “I’ve seen tremendous growth with students that find it difficult to speak in front of large groups. At this time of year, some of these students have so much to say and can do it was such ease and confidence. It’s also a great space for full inclusion and peer support with designated students. When Student A is speaking, the class is very respectful and gives her their full attention. Sometimes students that are sitting beside her, help guide her if she is stuck or confused with the process. I have had many parents over the years tell me that their child has brought the routine home and now it is their ritual at dinner time”.

In our upper intermediate class, where the students did an in-depth exploration of feelings and empathy, the growth was evident.   Students became able to more readily and accurately be able to express their own emotions as well as take perspective about how others are feeling.  

The teacher explains, “As students grew more familiar with the (emotion) charts, students saw a shift in how they talked about their own emotions.  Many students who originally said “I don’t know” when asked how they felt, began to use more specific words from the chart.  Some even started referencing the chart independently, searching for the right word to express what they were experiencing.  One of my biggest goals with this was to make an impact on our classroom culture. Students have slowly become more understanding and aware of each other. They've learned to look beyond surface behaviors and consider how someone else might be feeling inside. This showed up even more in friend groups where they were struggling to understand points of view when in an argument. I’m excited to continue to do this next year and use what I’ve learned to better teach my students how to build empathy and care for each other.”

At North Ridge, we are excited about our work in fostering respect and empathy among our students.  We see them developing the ability to describe and develop strategies for positive, healthy relationships.  We see them more readily demonstrating respectful, inclusive behaviour.

Our next steps include developing and strengthening our repertoire of teaching strategies that support our curricular competencies.  We look forward to exploring the positive impact on our school community!